Apparently you are. As for specifics, isn't narrowing down everything to a cut and dried definition sort of anti-family? What you ask for sounds more like a militia or some other regimental "family."
Not defining things means anything means whatever the hell you want it to mean at any given point. Just because something has an actual meaning in a language doesn't make it regimental or military in any sense of the word.
And in reference to Shylah's post, every guild on the server is family friendly to a large extent. There is no guild that does the things she points out, nor are there any that require raid attendance. RL always comes first with EVERY guild on Al'Kabor. Just because one guild raids 4 times a week, and another less, makes neither less family oriented then the other, as long as attendance is not required. All I see is my guild providing more opportunities to raid then others, and if I want to take advantage of them or not it's my choice.